A Mother’s Heartbreaking Journey: Remembering Jac Carper
What Happened
On the night of August 12, 2024, tragedy struck when 4-year-old Jac Carper, a child on the autism spectrum, wandered from his home and lost his life. Jac, who had a deep love for water, slipped away unnoticed during a brief moment when his grandmother—caring for him and his sisters—was distracted. Despite special locks on the doors to prevent such incidents, Jac managed to leave the house and made his way to a neighbor’s pool. There, he was found unresponsive.
Jac’s family was left devastated, especially since he had never shown signs of wandering before. His passing reflects a heartbreaking reality: many children with autism are instinctively drawn to water, making them vulnerable to such tragedies.
Who Was Jac?
Born Joseph Alan Carper II, Jac was a radiant, affectionate child who communicated through hugs, laughter, and his own unique expressions. Though non-verbal, he filled his family’s lives with immeasurable love. Water, to Jac, was more than a fascination—it was a calming and comforting sensory escape.
His family remembers him not for the way he left this world, but for the light he brought into it. Jac lived with a joy and rhythm entirely his own, teaching his loved ones invaluable lessons in patience, love, and resilience during his short but meaningful life.
A Timeline of Jac’s Journey
February 2021 – Jac endured a challenging medical season, including a severe infection that led to complications. Throughout it all, his family’s love surrounded him.
August 12, 2024 – Jac wandered from his home and tragically drowned in a nearby pool.
August 2025 – In his memory, Jac’s family continues to share his story through the “Raising Jac” page, dedicated to raising awareness about wandering and honoring his legacy.
The Public Response
Jac’s passing resonated deeply with families across the country. His mother, Shannon Carper, opened her heart on social media, connecting with other parents who had experienced similar losses. The “Raising Jac” page has since become both a memorial and a community—offering solace, spreading awareness, and urging vigilance.
Organizations including the National Autism Association and the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) highlighted Jac’s story, reminding the public of the dangers wandering poses to children with autism.
Moving Forward
In response, both NCMEC and the National Autism Association renewed calls for proactive steps to protect vulnerable children. They stress that safeguarding kids requires not just parents’ efforts but the involvement of entire communities—neighbors, schools, and the public at large.
The Carper family hopes that Jac’s story will not only keep his memory alive but also inspire others to act with vigilance, compassion, and awareness.
Closing
Jac’s life was brief, but his impact endures. His story is a sobering reminder of the dangers facing children with autism—particularly those drawn to water. Through their grief, the Carpers remain determined that Jac’s legacy will protect others, turning their tragedy into a beacon of awareness and love.
This story will be updated as more information becomes available.